Successful change starts earlier than you think.

There is a cultural shift that must happen before any change journey. We call this culture Appreciative Collaboration.

How ready is your organisation for its next change? Take a few minutes to find out.

What does Appreciative Collaboration give you?

Appreciative Collaboration (AC) is the way of working that that sits between authoritarian leadership and self-managing teams. It must happen before starting any change journey.

AC gives the team the required foundation to enable successful change. It develops genuine respect and admiration of one another, facilitates constructive conflict, and encourages collective responsibility for performance.

We use 6 domains to define and understand Appreciative Collaboration: People, Relationships, Purpose, Results, Process, and Routines.

ExEnEm is the 3 phase approach we use to help build Appreciative Collaboration

Explore

Uncover what is currently working well, surface issues to gain insight, discover goals for the future and affirm commitment to change.

Engage

Bring everyone together to envision the future collectively. Co-design the route forward. Begin to acquire and practice the skills of Appreciative Collaboration.

Embed

Ongoing skill development and accountability measures to facilitate genuine enduring change, keeping everyone on course to the agreed north star.

This approach provides a structure, which is adapted to the needs of each team. The duration and specific composition is determined by your team’s commitment and their readiness for change.

Why are we doing this?

ExEnEm is the product of experienced facilitators, DJ and Isobel, finding themselves in happy alignment.

We’ve spent years in rooms with leaders trying to make changes: new structures, new ways of working, and AI arriving in every role at once. The plans were usually built using sound theory and examples that worked for other organisations. What usually set programmes back was realising the culture underneath hadn’t been developed to weather a storm of that size.

We coined Appreciative Collaboration to name the culture that we could see was needed. It’s work in the change process that we will refuse to let you skip. ExEnEm is the process that let’s us to do that work effectively.

How do we get started?

Step 1: Get Your AC Score

Our scorecard helps you understand where you are on the Appreciative Collaboration journey. It'll take 10 minutes to complete.

Step 2: Book Your Free Consultation

We will then have a free consultation with you to discuss if ExEnEm is right for you. We'll be the first to tell you if not, and we'll suggest better first next steps.

Step 3: Co-Design Your Programme

If ExEnEm is a fit, we'll collaborate with you (and your team) to create your bespoke program and determine what it might cost. This starts with a clear Explore stage and then setting review checkpoints to further define Engage and Embed.

Are you ready for an ExEnEm programme?

The ExEnEm approach is not for everyone. We believe in full, complete programmes that create enduring impact over quick-win one-off workshops.

Since it’s definitely not one-size fits all, we will happily meet with you, discuss what you feel your issues are, and discuss whether or not an ExEnEm programme makes sense for you.

We will be the first to let you know if it won’t be right – and if we can see one, give you an alternative first next step. Let’s have a chat!

Answers to Your Common Questions

Appreciative Collaboration is the workplace culture that lets a team carry change. People disagree without damage, take ownership without waiting for permission, and hold each other to a high standard because they value each other. We coined the term to name the culture most organisations skip developing before a restructure, an AI rollout or any major change.

We map it as a tall ship with six sails across three masts: People and Relationships (who you are together), Purpose and Results (why you’re moving), and Process and Routines (how you stay on course). Most organisations have some sails full and others slack.

You can read more on our page here: What is Appreciative Collaboration?

Most organisations jump into change without building cultural capacity first, and that’s why they fail.

The plan is often sound, sometimes borrowed from organisations where it worked well. What stalls it is a team that hasn’t built the trust to raise problems early, own decisions or adapt when things shift. When strategy comes first, it asks for behaviour the culture can’t yet support.

Forward-thinking leaders start earlier, with implementing Appreciative Collaboration before the big change moment has even happened yet. When you invest in a culture that weather big storms, when something like the AI revolution arrives, your people help you sail through it smoothly.

Find out how much your organisation is already practicing Appreciative Collaboration here.

Honestly, we’ve met very few companies that don’t need it, so we’d put good money on assuming that there’s something from our Appreciative Collaboration toolkit that your organisation would benefit from.

Our Find Your Bearings scorecard might help shine a light on it. It asks a few questions about each of the six sails of Appreciative Collaboration and shows you where your team is already strong and where change is likely to get tangled.

It takes around 5 minutes and it’s where every conversation begins.

After you’re done, you can book a call and we can explore your results with you.

Change management plans how a change rolls out, and it usually starts when the change is already upon you. Leadership training develops individual leaders, empowering them to become better at working with people. ExEnEm builds the culture both depend on: how your whole organisation works together when things are uncertain. We usually come in before a change programme begins, or when it’s becoming evidence that the well-designed plan is beginning to fail.

We also stay. As Collaborators, we work alongside your leadership team and remain involved through the Embed stage to make sure what we build keeps running. We don’t do one-off interventions because we’re very clear: they don’t work.

Yes. Stalled AI adoption is rarely a tools problem. People hold back when they aren’t sure it’s safe to experiment, admit what they don’t know or question how their work is changing. Those are cultural questions, and they sit at the heart of Appreciative Collaboration.

DJ designed and delivers a government-funded AI Culture Lead programme, and he’s witnessed how the tools of the Appreciative Collaboration are the foundations for effective AI adoption in real life.

We’ll help you find where trust, purpose or routines are holding adoption back, and build from there.

Not all the way. ExEnEm will help you to create a culture of Appreciative Collaboration that self-management depends on. Removing layers of management moves decisions closer to the work, but it doesn’t give the trust, clarity, or habits to make those decisions well. Without that culture, flatter structures tend to rebuild hierarchy informally.

You need new processes and systems if you want to replace the hierarchical management structure. You won’t know which ones are right for your organisation until your culture can tell you.

That depends on your motivation. We work with leaders who want their team to manage themselves and support each other through change. If you are looking for compliance because you believe change needs a “firm grip on the wheel” and you as leader know best, this isn’t for you.

If you see your team as a problem you need to fix, and yourself as the excellent and experienced leader, we won’t see eye to eye on what needs doing.

In our experience, successful change almost always starts with leadership unlearning old habits. We will ask you to take a cold, hard look at your own behaviour first. We are firm: everything starts with you, like it or leave it.

An ExEnEm programme will help your team to do what they need to do. That may not be what you want them to do, because they might show you a better way to reach your goals.

No. ExEnEm programmes are for every person in an organisation, not just the leaders. We may (and usually do) start with leadership, but will quickly and necessarily widen that to include everyone because culture is nurtured by those who are in it.

If some people are unwilling or need to be coerced into taking part, we explore why before going further. That reluctance is usually telling you something useful, so it shouldn’t be squashed or ignored.

No. If your directors or trustees have the slightest possibility of veto, they need to be directly engaged with the programme. Reluctant approval from the people who have the most power set you, and us, up to fail, so we’ll unpick it with them before we start.

When power sits with individuals in an organisation, those people will make or break the culture. Leave them out, and what we build together can be destroyed by them when the next storm hits.

An ExEnEm programme runs in three stages over roughly 6-18 months. Explore maps where your culture is now. Engage builds Appreciative Collaboration with your team through iterative cycles. Embed keeps it alive through our community and regular check-ins.

It can’t go faster. Culture built in a hurry sinks as soon as the first obstacle comes along. If you’re looking for a quick fix or a band-aid, we’re not the right people.

Every ExEnEm programme is scoped to your organisation, so we set pricing after a first conversation. It’s a significant investment, made to last. Start with the Find Your Bearings scorecard, and we’ll talk through what a programme would look like for you and what investment is needed to make that happen.

We work with organisations from at least 5 people up to hundreds. Our main criteria is that leaders are ready to change how they lead and are willing to invest in resilience rather than the more expensive and ineffective repair. That includes charities, social enterprises, growing businesses, local authorities and teams inside large global companies. We’re based in the UK and work both in person and remotely.

Sector matters less than one thing: a leader willing to look at themselves first.

Need us for something else?

If you’re interested in an ExEnEm programme, we ask you to please start with getting your AC Score – it’s the best way to get through to us for that.

If, however, you need to be in touch for any other reason, you can email team@exenem.com and we’ll respond to you as soon as we can, or you can add us on LinkedIn in the footer below.

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